@Mike_Tjr@urQuel_5dawg I was just about to say this because there’s a lot of benefits that come with prior military other than the disability checks. Kids’ school paid for, little to no cost for family health insurance, no property taxes, etc.
Most of the women (PMs and Engineers) husbands stay at home or working a job making barely any money. It’s quite interesting… if it matters, all them are white.
A man going through “a lot” is not your invitation to become his therapist or emotional caretaker. If the texts get slower, his presence fades, and he puts you on the back burner, ask yourself…Is this the energy I want to build my life around?