When you’ve been through a lot of stuff you realize how important respect is. And it’s not about demanding respect from everyone. It’s about not engaging with people who don’t respect you.
A lot of ppl take your mercy forgranted. They think bc you haven’t addressed them or retaliated that you don’t know. It’s not even that, it’s not worth the energy. What’s going to happen to you next is far worse than anything I could’ve ever done to you.
Sometimes doing the thing that is in the highest integrity and service means someone else’s feelings get hurt or someone ends up being mad at you.
We can’t allow fear of rejection or disappointing others to prevent us from listening to our intuitive guidance.
Misery loves company. But so does authenticity. So does divine power. So do elevation, confirmation, and reclamation. You decide the company you keep and the company you keep will help you decide what’s called forward in your life.
Removing yourself from an unrequited love is better than staying in it. You deserve to experience a love that reciprocates the feelings, effort and energy that you naturally give. Sooner than later, please refocus your energy, shift your priorities, and love them from a distance.
i always think about how it’s so inconvenient for people to treat you carelessly because now you have the responsibility to rewire your brain in hopes to undo the impact of the trauma when they could have just left you alone.
Sometimes people speak to me and all that I'm thinking in my head is "you can't even hear what you're saying right now" . The cognitive dissonance is astounding.
I no longer have an interest in making ppl see themselves. it always proved to be a waste of my time in the past & so now I just accept they are not self-aware & lack accountability & leave them to figure out their own problems.