@fr33ind33d@Jennife14234194@LoisMcLatch I was blessed enough to not have any failed implantations. (Though I did misscarry when trying to conserve naturally)
My brother has two embryos remaining that are going to the biological egg doner so she can have a family.
@Jennife14234194@fr33ind33d@ShaunOsburn@LoisMcLatch The fact that our "friend" here still sees this as "human trafficking" despite the definition of the word and thinks that his family tree is a wreath when it is the literally the connection of both sides of his father's family connecting shows she is not open seeing Love.
@fr33ind33d@ShaunOsburn@Jennife14234194@LoisMcLatch I am so confused.
Who is the mother?
Am I "the mother" 'cuz I carried him for 9 months & birthed him?
Is my cousin inlaw "the mother" 'cuz she gave genetic DNA?
We BOTH going to be in this kid's life.
I think you just have a problem w/ fams that don't fit mid-mind
@fr33ind33d@Jennife14234194@LoisMcLatch Also my husband and I had to also go through IVF and that took doctors to assist as well.
Families come in different shapes and sizes and "it takes a village" can mean different things.
My body, my choice.
My family, my choice.
Love is Love.
God is Love.
2015: I made the offer to be my brother & his partner's surrogate
2017: They got married
2018: I married my husband
2020: We had our child
2025: I had their child
My 5 year plan took 10 years but my family is all here.
My heart is full.
https://t.co/D5dA3SkB46
@fr33ind33d@Jennife14234194@LoisMcLatch Matter of perspective.
You asked if we were going with 2 dads making a baby. I said we (the family that had the child) looked at it as a group project.
@ShaunOsburn@Atomixion Wild how people don't have this kind of love in their lives. SMH.
I would feel sorry for you, but I don't want to offend you with my pity. Just know it is out in the world.
@ShaunOsburn@Atomixion You R right! I didn't just "hand over a baby".
I offered to be a surrogate to my brother & his partner after they had been together for years. Then I was upfront w/ everyone I dated & met my husband, had a kid of my own, & went through medial stuff, & then handed them THEIR kid