I remember the first day I met my husband 😭
I billed him on our first date.
He paid for my Uber.
I ate food worth over 100k and he still got me takeaways.
A week later, I billed him for a wig.
He came through too 😂
Before meeting him, I had already decided I was done being the “understanding girlfriend.”
I wasn’t going to stress myself trying to earn love anymore.
Whoever wanted to stay would stay.
For the first 2 months of dating, I didn’t cook for him.
I didn’t do his laundry.
I didn’t clean his house.
Yet within those same 2 months:
He introduced me to his family.
He met mine.
We did our introduction.
It was only after that I started doing the little things naturally.
We got married in the 3rd month.
Today, we’re 6 years married with kids and I have zero regrets ❤️
The funny thing is that before him, I had been in relationships where I was cooking, washing clothes, cleaning houses, doing everything imaginable…
And they still left.
That’s when I learned something:
What works for one woman may not work for another.
Doing the most won’t make someone stay.
Doing the least won’t make the right person leave.
Sometimes, the people who want you make it easy.
And the people who don’t… no amount of sacrifice will convince them.
Who will stay, will stay.
People say time heals, but some wøunds never truly disappear. The pain may become quieter, but it never leaves. Every Saturday reminds me of the day i l0st my wife, and every Sunday reminds me of the child i never got the chance to know. I carry both of them in my heart every single day, and i know i always will.
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E-Signed:
Prince Dotun Oyelade
Hon. Commissioner for Information,
Oyo State.
4th June, 2026.
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Dear Young Nigerians,
One lesson from the 2023 elections, particularly in Lagos, should never be forgotten.
In the period following the presidential election and leading up to the governorship election, we witnessed a troubling shift in public discourse. Conversations that should have focused on competence, governance, development, and the future of our nation were gradually diverted towards tribal sentiments, ethnic divisions, and unnecessary suspicion among citizens.
Many sincere and well-meaning Nigerians participated in these conversations without realising that they were being drawn into narratives carefully designed by others.
Throughout history, whenever politicians find it difficult to compete on ideas, performance, character, or vision, some resort to exploiting the fault lines of ethnicity, religion, and identity. Their calculation is simple: a divided people are easier to manipulate than a united people.
Today, I see similar efforts emerging again, sometimes in more subtle and sophisticated ways. Narratives are planted, amplified, and circulated, often by individuals who genuinely believe they are defending a worthy cause, without recognizing the broader agenda behind such campaigns.
Let me state clearly that Pastor Enoch Adeboye remains one of the foremost fathers of faith in our nation. For decades, he has consistently preached the virtues of peace, prayer, love, reconciliation, and national unity. Even when faced with provocation, his response has always reflected humility, restraint, wisdom, and grace.
At 84 years of age, it would be unfair for young and able-bodied Nigerians to transfer to him responsibilities that properly belong to them. The task of building a better Nigeria rests primarily on the shoulders of the younger generation. It is their duty to lead the conversations, champion the reforms, and drive the positive change our nation urgently requires.
We must be careful not to become instruments in the hands of those who secretly nurture division while publicly preaching unity. In most cases, their target is not the individual being attacked; instead, it is the person who is attacking. Their real objective is to weaken the bonds that hold us together as one people and one nation.
I therefore urge all young Nigerians: do not allow anyone to recruit you into hatred. Do not allow anyone to weaponise your ethnicity, your faith, or your admiration for respected leaders.
Question every narrative. Verify every claim. Follow the facts. Resist manipulation.
The Nigeria of our dreams can only be built by citizens who refuse to be divided, who choose unity over hatred, and who place our collective future above narrow interests.
A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO
When President Tinubu removed Local Government Areas from the parasitic State Governments by granting councils full autonomy to manage their affairs and receive their allocations directly, it is on record that Governor Seyi Makinde openly criticised the move and vowed never to grant councils in Oyo State the autonomy they deserve. He said President Tinubu cannot sit in Abuja and tell him how to run councils in his state.
When the Federal Govt instructed councils across the federation to open dedicated bank accounts to receive their funds directly from the Central Bank, Gov. Makinde went to court to challenge the decision. To this day, the 3.0 man has continued to collect Local Government funds and distribute them piecemeal to struggling councils.
It ha just been revealed that in 34 months, Oriire Local Government Area of Oyo State, where the unfortunate schoolchildren kidnapping occurred, got a staggering N16.3 billion in FAAC allocation but the money went to the State Govt’s purse. This humongous fund could have been useful to the agrarian community with a sizeable population, but Oriire LGA lacks proper roads, modern amenities and essential services to support spontaneous security operations.
Now, a security breach has occurred but Seyi Makinde suddenly remembered the community needed rice to address their concerns. Where is the N16.3 billion that could have fortified the Oriire community against the uncivilised invaders that took away its peace?
Well, this should serve as a wake-up call for all administrators who are crippling grassroots governance and diverting LGA funds into inappropriate uses.
🚨🇲🇨 Story from one month ago, confirmed: Ansu Fati, set to stay at AS Monaco joining on a permanent deal from Barcelona.
€11m fee and sell-on clause for Barça, Ansu prepared to stay with Filipe Luis as new head coach. 🔗
11 goals in his first Ligue1 season. ❤️🤍✅
Mrs. Alamu Folawe – Principal
Mr. Ojo Jonathan – Vice Principal
Mr. Olatunde Zacchaeus – Teacher
Mr. John Olaleye – Teacher
Mr. Michael Oyedokun – Teacher RIP
Mrs. Oladeji – Teacher
Mary Akanbi – Teacher
Mr Adesiyan Adegboye - RIP
@officialABAT#BringBackOurTeachers
Damilare Oderinde -8, Deborah Adebowale -5, Aisha Oguntowo -10, Lege Taiwo -12, Balkis Ayanwale -8, Asa David -10, Shuaibu Aliyu –10, Ahmed Aliyu –7, Muiz Aliyu – 5, Jomiloju Ogunlola –Agune Noah – 8, Elizabeth Abadi –5, Tosin Abadi –9, Pius Stephen – 5, Hannah Ojo – 14, Habidat Ayanwale – 7, Mary Gabriel – 6, Jacob Gabriel
@officialABAT #BringBackOurChildren
We have all agreed that this is the best midfield trio in the world
Some are even saying that this trio is better than Xavi Iniesta and Busquets if they don’t win the World Cup, we all know who to blame
Shalom 😁
Even though, company law is not exactly my forte. But please nominate any accountant of your choice, whom you consider the most intelligent and brilliant; and has good knowledge of company law.
I will like us to have a 1-2hours of space to discuss and answer questions on company law. The accountant will ask me 10 questions and I will ask 10questions on any topic of our choice. We will nominate someone to assess us and I will drop 1million naira and you or anyone will also drop 1million naira. If the accountant, nominated by you, wins, he takes it all. If I win, I will take all the money.
This is an open challenge, once it’s 12pm, the offer is no longer on the table.