Lucy Letby should be dragged to court kicking and screaming if need be. She should be MADE to hear witness impact statements from those poor families. Why on earth does she get a choice? Not a single one of those babies that she murdered in cold blood had any choice.
Normalize being ok with letting people think what they want about you. The idea that we're going to be liked, validated, or accepted by everyone is an illusion. Our peace, mental health and happiness is more important than other people's perceptions, opinions, or approval of us.