Laughter is anti-inflammatory. Crying is regulating. Hugging is immunoprotective. Singing is vagal toning. Dancing is neurogenic.
Joy is a biological necessity.
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
I read a quote that said
"The faster that you do the hard things you want to avoid, the faster you will receive the good things you actually want"
and that has changed my whole perspective.
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.
Women love resting. It’s one of their favorite things to do. Reading, laying under the sun, painting their nails, writing, journaling, taking baths, drinking a cup of tea in silence, sleeping, doing nothing. And there’s nothing wrong with that, they need it for a reason, it’s medicine! ♥️
the best thing you can do for yourself is actively increase your surface area for luck to hit you. go outside, try new cafes, museums, events, take a new route home, speak to people, ask questions, side quest.
the more you do, the more serendipity and synchronicity will find you.
Venus in Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
Appreciate solid, reliable long-standing relationships. Your partner has to demonstrate devotion. A happy home is essential to you. Venus in Earth signs need physical proof of commitment. You are loyal & devoted once you commit.
Nothing ends a friendship quicker for me than seeing someone show up for everyone else in ways they never show up for me, like you have the capacity.. just not for me? yeah, i’ll pass.
Major cheat code in life: Learn to spot when someone is using vulnerability as manipulation. They share trauma to create obligation. They weaponize their pain to control you. Real vulnerability invites connection. Fake vulnerability demands caretaking.