many men, who call themselves “subs” have no idea how far they are from actually being submissive. the fact that you like chastity and Women in leather doesn’t make you submissive - the way you serve does. putting your Dom’s needs above your kinks would be a first step.
You don't want to try for yourself or for me. You're just a pathetic loser who doesn't want to address your psychological issues and instead will go to a femdom sites to jerk off to rejection content.