dressing up nicely and having quality pictures doesn't mean a person is rich. i don't know why y'all expect people to look horrible just because they are from poor backgrounds. i don’t think anyone is living a fake life, people just choose not to look like their family backgrounds, and that's okay.
Things I want in my man:
-Must be a virgin
-Must be submissive
-Must not talk back
-Must cook and clean
-Must dress modest
-Must take my surname after marriage if he loses his figure, divorce!
Women are afraid men will:
A. Drug them
B. Beat them
C. Rape them
D. Kill them
E. All of the above
Men are afraid women will:
A. Laugh at them
B. Reject them
C. Use them for a free meal
The phrase "boys will be boys" is proof that the reason men don’t think they’re the problem is because the people around them have always treated their behavior LIKE it’s normal.
Am I loving you right?
Am I making you feel safe with me? 🤍
Do you feel heard when you talk to me?
Is there anything I do that hurts you without knowing?
Am I giving you the attention you need?
Do you feel respected in this relationship?
What can I do to love you better?
Am I communicating clearly with you?
Do you feel secure about us? Are valid questions.
“Lately I’ve been thinking about who I want to love, and how I want to love, and why I want to love the way I want to love, and what I need to learn to love that way, and who I need to become to become the kind of love I want to be…and when I break it all down, when I whittle it into a single breath, it essentially comes out like this: Before I die, I want to be somebody’s favorite hiding place, the place they can put everything they know they need to survive, every secret, every solitude, every nervous prayer, and be absolutely certain I will keep it safe. I will keep it safe.”
— Andrea Gibson
Men don't actually hate feminism-they hate that it took away their free labor. Cooking, cleaning, raising kids, being a therapist, a secretary, a personal assistant-all things women used to do for free under the label of "being a good wife." Now that women are opting out, suddenly the world is in "crisis". The "traditional wife" wasn't a cherished role- it was unpaid labor disguised as love. And now that women are demanding actual partnership instead of servitude, men are losing their minds.