The cheat code to being attractive is knowing your aesthetic. Become very familiar with what colors/shades, hairstyles, clothing pieces, perfume scents, etc. complement you. If you do that, even on a bad day you’ll look good.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
I had a problem with one of the con…uh, not the contractor but the guy that I, uh, who, uh, who, was misappropriating funds!
Soooo I end up having to get new… contractors… so it’s moving forward, and you’ll be the first one over for tea. 🫖