your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a sign they value the relationship – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's love.
Date your partner. Compliment your partner. Don’t ever get comfortable because it’s been awhile. Quickest way to lose someone is to stop doing the things you did to get them. Keep the love going from the start.