every time you say โthis is new for meโ instead of โiโm bad at this,โ you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. thatโs neuroplasticity in real time.
A "muffin moment" is when your s/o is doing something mundane and the only thing you can think is "I love them so much."
I live for those moments because they're the ones that stick out in my memories.