Istikhaara doesn’t mean that it will not go wrong & having Tawakkul doesn’t mean it won’t hurt. It just means that wrong or right, it would be better for you. And i think we often just, forget that. It hurts because that’s how we are supposed to learn to be patient.
Used to write my debt in a google sheet, my income and every other thing because it makes it easy for me to calculate.
I thought of developing a project called "Al-miraath" that'd help you with storing your wasiyyah (will), calculate inheritance, knowledge on how to take care of
If your culture says it's forbidden or a taboo for a younger guy to find what he wants in an older lady or the guy and lady are of same age to want to get married to each other, islam allows and accepts it. It's not something of shame.
I’m genuinely against spending millions during weddings but In as much as marriage on the spot is beautiful, it is equally a very dangerous practice for the society we have found ourselves in. We can have the usual engagement and Nikkah without dinner parties. Allah ya sa mu dace
Today makes it exactly two years since I met Odunayo hawking fish on the streets of majidun Ikorodu with her little brother.
A lot has happened since then, but two weeks ago, she completed her first year of school and passed her examinations😊
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@Safiyanudm This is so commendable. But we should also spell out stringent conditions for divorce that will make ‘on the spot’ marriages almost impossible to disintegrate. If not, in this same Arewa ppl will abuse this beautiful culture.
Getting married is easy but the hardest thing is finding the right partner who's going to help you maintain and increase your level of Imaan and Taqwa.
If you want to get married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse:
1. Ya Allah please Grant me someone who will remind me of You.
When we see adhab, most of us just think good manners and characters to humans and animals alone. It's not so. Adhab also entails good character and manners in obedience and worship to Allah. Therefore, obedience to Allah is part of adhab.
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How to memorize one page of Qu'ran
Divide the page into 3 parts.
Recite each part 50 times.
25 times looking at it.
25 times not looking at it.
Once completed recite the entire page 50 times.
25 times looking at it 25 times. not looking at it.
As much as you can, avoid staying in the family house as a newly married couple. You are new, you need privacy and you'd make a lot of mistakes. The last thing you need is "entitled" third party interference refereeing your every move. Exceptions exist but if you can, avoid it.