Red pill tells men: “Women are the enemy.”
Extreme feminism tells women: “Men are the danger.”
Now everyone is wounded, suspicious, and alone.
Maybe the real enemy is pain that never healed.
#HealthyMasculinity#EndGBV#HeCareZa
Adv. Andrea Johnson’s point is important: GBV and femicide cases have deep emotional and social layers. If prosecutors do not understand trauma, control, fear, and survivor safety, justice can feel cold and distant. Training must be continuous.
#EndGBV#JusticeForWomen#HeCareZa
[WATCH] Adv. Andrea Johnson says there should be ongoing training for prosecutors to deal with gender-based violence and femicide. "It's a very sensitive matter. It cannot just be a case to prosecute. It has its own nuances, and prosecutors need to understand what those are," she says.
#Newzroom405
Abuse does not always begin with violence. Sometimes it begins with control, jealousy, isolation, and constant monitoring.
Know the signs early.
#EndGBV#HealthyRelationships#HeCareZa
Brothers, why does receiving words like “i love you” make you feel uncomfortable?
Open up chiefs, tenderness is not weakness. You deserve safe emotional connection too.
#HealthyMasculinity#MenDeserveCare#ItsOkayToFeel
Your partner constantly demanding to go through your phone is not normal‼️
In the digital age, control can hide behind the language of “love” and “trust.” Set boundaries on password demand threats and consistent location tracking.
#DigitalAbuse#OnlineSafety#EndGBV
Where is the justice system when you need it?
No one should lose their life for choosing to leave a relationship, and no family should be left without answers for this long.
Enough is enough. Justice cannot be delayed. #HeCareZA#JusticeForNasiphiAndOvayo
Nasiphi Dutywa, 41, and her nine-month-old baby girl, Ovayo, lifeless bodies were found in the boyfriend’s bed in Soweto, Johannesburg, on 9 April 2026.
It is alleged that Nasiphi told her sister she was planning to move out of her boyfriend's home with her baby. On the day Nasiphi was meant to leave, her sister reportedly received several calls from Nasiphi’s boyfriend, who claimed there had been a serious conflict and asked the family to come to the house.
When family members arrived, the house was quiet, and Nasiphi and her babies' lifeless bodies were found in the bedroom.
The bodies were later taken to the mortuary and released to the family almost two weeks later. According to the family, they were given very little communication during the investigation, but received information in the postmortem report indicating alleged poison ingestion.
To date, no one has been arrested. We are heartbroken by the loss of those two beautiful souls. When is enough, enough? #WomenForChange #UnburyTheTruth #mothersday
Imagine someone who is constantly insulted, controlled, threatened, or made to feel worthless, yet told, “At least they don’t hit you.” Over time, fear becomes normal and silence becomes survival.
Why do we often fail to recognize emotional abuse as GBV? 🤔 #EndGBV#HeCareZa
A home becomes unsafe through the beliefs we normalize.
A girl is taught to stay silent when hurt. A boy is taught that control proves manhood. Years later, silence and domination feel normal.
Don’t traditional gender roles fuel instances of GBV?🤔
#GBVAwareness#HeCareZa
Nothing can ever underestimate the role of the stable nuclear family and present fathers. Boys lacking role models will naturally gravitate towards gangs if fathers are absent. More male role models are needed to combat GBV. #EndGBV#HeCareZA
The alarming rate of Gender Based Violence and its prevalence really calls for collective action. Gents, women cannot be the only ones fighting against this when we should should lead as responsible brothers and fathers in confronting this. #EndGBV#HeCareZa
Broadcaster and activist, @positivegp joins @HeidiGiokos for a raw and deeply personal conversation about gender-based violence, trauma, leadership, HIV advocacy, and the systems failing women in South Africa. #eNCA
Watch the full episode of Voices of Change here: https://t.co/jmZSIkZ6Vo
@andyfilmsanqrz4 This is exactly the conversation society isn’t ready for. There is nothing wrong with showing traditionally masculine traits while still being respectful, loving and caring. That is what makes a truly honorable man.
4) The goal is not to destroy masculinity, but to direct it toward service. Ungoverned masculinity can spiral into harm, but responsible masculinity builds homes, protects communities, mentors boys, respects women, and helps prevent GBV. #EndGBV#ToxicMasculinity#HeCareZa
The Toxic Masculinity Conversation we all avoid (thread):
What if our whole conception of masculinity is wrong. Is masculinity toxic or a part of how our species has evolved? Maybe there is no toxicity, but rather the need to nurture masculinity into what is right.
Positive masculinity means a man’s presence brings safety, not fear. A spouse or child should not be afraid to speak honestly. Men must learn to communicate, apologize, listen, and manage anger without violence or intimidation. #EndGBV#ToxicMasculinity
2) The real crisis is often absent or undisciplined masculinity: fathers who disappear, men who refuse accountability, and boys growing up without healthy models of manhood. We must challenge “hit and run” fatherhood and normalize men staying present.
1) There is nothing toxic about courage, strength, sacrifice, leadership, protection, or provision. These traits have helped families and communities survive. What becomes harmful is strength without self-control, authority without humility, and pride without responsibility.