nobody gets angrier than a man being confronted about something he actually did. lmao
suddenly the problem isn’t what he did, it’s the fact that you noticed.
Men can switch up so fast. They’ll chase you, make you feel wanted, convince you they’re serious and go out of their way to get your attention. Then once you finally let your guard down and start believing them, everything changes. The same person who couldn’t leave you alone suddenly has no time for you. The energy disappears. The effort fades. And you’re left wondering how someone who wanted you so badly could suddenly act like losing you means nothing. They’ll chase you to the end of the earth just to leave you wondering why they ever asked you to come with them.
being a mama made me realize i don't just want love that feels good. i want the kind of love that feels safe, peaceful, consistent, and makes my babies feel loved too.
My peace & mental come FIRST. I’ll stop answering, fall back, create distance & remove myself from ANY situation that got my mind feeling heavy. I don’t care who it is or how long we been cool. I’m done sacrificing myself just to keep connections alive. I’m choosing ME every time, and I hope you learn to do the same. 💯
Single mothers NEED to stop bringing males into homes where kids lay their heads & neglecting to watch them intensely. You may know someone for years and they’ll keep that mask on till one day they don’t. IDC how long you’ve been with him. Keep your eyes on them. Locks on your kid’s doors and stop letting them be alone or fucking babysit! Stop falling in love in two business days just because you’re lonely- the desire to have a family does not get priority over the safety of your children!