Wendy Windle

The Love Your Bloody Self Coach. I can help you be your own best mate, quit holding yourself back and love your bloody self - without being a dick about it.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

@LouLouMason Hiya Lovely! Sending you a huge big kiss.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to: strike up a conversation with a stranger?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

So what if you're a privileged, racist, clueless, white girl? That's exactly what you came here to transcend.
It doesn't make you a terrible person, just part of the matrix. Stop crying and unmatrix yourself.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

You'll do anything to be right.
Especially about yourself. Even more so to prove that you're a worthless blip, destined to fail.
Why? Because you'll do anything to be safe.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

What belief, handed down to you by your parents/ school/ state/ church, do you need to set fire to, so that life can finally bring you what you're searching for?

(Yep, let's start with, "Life doesn't work like that!")

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

What greatness are you avoiding because you think you can't handle the consequences of success?
You'll learn everything you need to on the way, so start. Now, bozo,

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

What would devotion to the cult of you look like?
If you don't know, you're probably already in the cult of someone or something else.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

No matter how hard you push, try, effort, try again, try harder, if the door is meant to be opened the other way, it won't open.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Self care is not taking a bloody bath. That's grooming. Self care is having strong boundaries, never comparing yourself, and loving the fact that you're a weirdo who'll never fit in.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

That bitch doesn't "love herself." She's insecure and trying to puff herself up to feel like she matters. If she loved herself, you'd be celebrating her, not talking behind her back.
Unless, she DOES love herself and you hate her for it. Bitch, you need to love your bloody self.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
sod everyone else?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
try again?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
let your belly hang out over your jeans?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
block them on social media with no warning?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
let yourself off the hook and abandon your dreams?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
say "no"? Just, "no." Not, "No - omg - sorry!"

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
eat cake because you want cake - not as a "special treat" because you've been "a good girl"?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
resign as "person in charge of all things" today? Forever.

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
take a 5 minute break today and do f. all?

[Wendy Windle @WendyWindle1]

Do you love your bloody self enough to:
say "no"? Just, "no." Not, "No...omg, sorry!"

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