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23 Calistoner best friends and family mommy to a handsome pitbull/ corgi and gorgeous pitbull/ Rottweiler ❤️🐶

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This will be my last week working for a while. So excited to get the chance to stay home and be mommy. Can’t wait for all the things we’re going to do now that I’ll have all the time

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The fact that I can pay rent tomorrow and we’ll still have plenty left over for other bills and more. Such a relief with him working and working consistently

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Our daughter and plan on another baby 😊��� and start my own at home business

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I’m so proud of Mitch and getting this job. And with the way it’s looking for his work schedule the next few months he’ll be working basically through the end of the year with only a handful of days off, which means I’ll be able to quit working and stay home full time and raise

[HEATHER @whaHeather]

Growing up with my father being a narcissist and controlling, I know have so many childhood traumas/ptsd that it fucking drives me crazy 😫 and I’ve thought about looking for a therapist cause dealing with bi polar depression, ADD & childhood trauma/ptsd is exhausting

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As much as I don’t like staying home over night without Mitch, I know he really needs this job 🙃 so here comes the anxiety once he starts

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Seriously felt like I was being shamed because Mitch was in pain and Nessa wasn’t feeling great. And then at the end when we’re leaving his mom goes…sorry you have to take care of them. And then makes a fake sad face. Like I was so over tonight’s dinner

[HEATHER @whaHeather]

We’ll see I know my daughter and I know the fever is from her teething. The vomit was from y’all fucking feeding her when she didn’t need it.

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Her tooth I think she’s sick.

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His mom and sister start feeding Nessa after I’ve already said she has a fever and just ate 40 mins before we got there. So they feed her food and part of a bottle which then in return cause Nessa to projectile vomit all over me. And then my in laws go…..oh I don’t think it’s

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Seriously if we would allow it his mom would fucking move in to our house because she doesn’t understand boundaries and it’s frustrating

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His mom literally just does not listen to me when I fucking speak. Like even with stuff to do with Nessa. Fucking irritates me to no end.

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To pick up our 23 pound baby. Like please make this make fucking sense.

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Like Mitch hasn’t worked this week cause his back, his mom asks. So did he go to work like this all week. Me no he’s been home all week. So what did he do something on Tuesday at work. Me no because h did not work Tuesday. So what do you think he did at work this week to mess

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His back up. Me he hasn’t been to work at all this week. Oh so when did he last work. Me he worked last week. Oh well then daddy’s gunna have to watch Nessa while mommy picks up extra shifts. Me how would that be possible if he can barely stand up he’s not going to be able

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And literally asking the same thing 5 different ways and still not understanding/fully listening to what the fuck I’m saying.

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Went to my in laws for dinner like we do every week. Well this week Mitch has been stuck in bed with horrible back pain. And Nessa woke up with a fever from her tooth. We get to their house and the moment Mitch’s mom sees him in pain she starts asking me 30 thousand questions

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Crawl and go to walking” so wtf is my daughter “suppose” to be at

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Nessa’s last doctors appointment last week, I feel like her doctor was mom shaming me 😣 went in the day Nessa turned 9 months and her dr just kept telling me that she should be crawling and pulling up to stand at 9 months and I need to work on it. Which Nessa is def trying to

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Crawl and pull up on stuff to stand, but she just started doing it as she literally just turned 9 months. Oh and then her dr then goes “well 9 months they should be crawling and trying to stand but crawling isn’t really a major milestone for 9pm that as a lot of babies don’t