Worst Pastor’s Wife

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[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

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[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

Don’t forget that the vile fog that spreads when narcissistic sociopaths activate their venom includes a freeze of undo shame. That feeling when someone lies about you & you know factually, it’s untrue but you still experience the undo shame.

It’s the venom.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@house_of_trad My guy, marriage is a dice roll. Spouses gaining weight falls under “til death do us part”. Like… did he really not consider this possibility in the spectrum of things that could happen? If a 65 lb weight gain is a deal breaker - don’t get married. You’re not ready.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

Pray, if that’s what you do. My daughter has been absorbed by a horrible cult like family and has run away to her father’s who is a horrible hands off father. I am devastated.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

WHEN YOU GET A PROMOTION AND NAIL YOUR FIRST DAY 🥳

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

I am so tempted to do a church tour and do a blog or live podcast immediately after leaving the service.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@JennMGreenberg “Primal”? This is 100% ick. It’s almost like he really needed someone to know that her wholesome appearance makes his “primal” urges wholesome. Not sure that’s how that works, though.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@lsquaredbtwn Thank you! 👏

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

Raise a glass… the deevorce is in motion. 🥂

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@lilyswaller Well, thank you!!!!

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@lsquaredbtwn It’s just been a lot. But here we go! Weeeeee!!

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@returnofthegoth THANK YOU 💋

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

When you lose the most important relationship you’ve ever had you can’t think about the gaping chasm now in front of you. You have to give yourself time where you only look at and gather the minutes right in front of you. Even if those minutes are half empty.

Moments at a time.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@CruzOnCamera Same.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

Hey. Tell me your feelings. Just anything about literally anything. I feel the need to listen and hear thoughts without a line of context.

Needing to hear someone else’s thoughts right now.

Sending out a universal virtual embrace that is warm and wholesome & fully accepting.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@returnofthegoth Yes, 100%. He was like, “Yeah we got a deal on it so we nabbed it but I have them then anyways.” Like….? Okay.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

I need you guys to weigh in.

Is an ex-husband taking your children to Hawaii something you think should be discussed or brought up with the ex-wife or is it something he just lets her know when the plans are already confirmed and booked?

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

O.H. !!!!!

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@heatherdino09 Exactly! That’s what I think.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

@returnofthegoth I mean I could never just decide to take our kids to Hawaii and not even ask how he feels about it. Maybe I just don’t have the right posture.

[Worst Pastor’s Wife @WifeWorst]

This year I’m giving less fucks about expectations I shouldn’t accept.

So… just a continuation of the last 3 years. Maybe honing this craft?

How about you?