Just look at life..
- To the wife, her husband is being sweet
- To other Women, the gesture is a hinderance
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Now let’s flip!
If it’s a case where the wife asks her husband first before going ahead with a deal
Then it’s no longer a sweet gesture.. The husband is ‘controlling’ and trying to dim his wife’s light.
And it’s the same across board!
That’s why I say..
That huge thing you’re doing for your Mum, if you start doing it for your Wife, automatically “your Wife has started using your head”
That huge thing you’re doing for your Wife, once you start doing it for your Mum, “His Mother is controlling him”.
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For Women, it’s mainly a battle of “who can use the Men around them to their selfish advantage the most”
It’s only a sweet gesture when done to them, extend the gestures and you become foolish or the other Women are manipulating you.
Also..
What a Man wants in his Woman, he wants for his sisters and daughters too
But what a Woman wants in her Man, she doesn’t want for her brother and son.
See… I can never believe Women are inherently ‘good people’ compared to Men.
They’re way too self-centered to be reasonable.. But play victim at every slight chance they get.
We both left home at 18.
You cleared JAMB
I got recommended.
You got UNIVERSITY,
I got NDA.
You pursued your degree,
I had the toughest training.
Your day started at 7 and ended at 5,
Mine started at 4 till 9 and
Some nights also included.
You had your convocation ceremony,
I had my POP.
Best company took you and
Best package was awarded,
I was ordered to join my platoon
With 2 stars piped on my shoulders.
You got a job,
I got a way of life.
Every eve you got to see your family,
I just wished i got to see my parents soon.
You celebrated festivals with lights and music,
I celebrated with my comrade in bunkers.
We both married,
Your wife got to see you everyday,
My wife just wished i was alive.
You were sent to business trips,
I was sent on line of control.
We both returned,
Both wives couldn't control their tears, but
You wiped her but,
I couldn't.
You hugged her but,
I couldn't.
Because I was lying in the coffin,
With medals on my chest and,
Coffin wrapped with tricolour.
My way of life ended,
Yours continued.
We both left home at 18.
I dedicate this to every soldier and uniform person out there, we don't understand what you do and the sacrifices you make, but know that we are eternally grateful!
Let me explain to you what these barbaric savages did in Benue state. For those who haven’t seen the video (maybe because it was too traumatic for you).
Let me break it down for you:
According to eyewitnesses;
Around 10:45pm on Friday night,
A group of terrorist animalistic vermins invaded Yelewata village. They divided themselves into two groups:
One group went to the police station and engaged the police in a fire exchange. The aim of this group is to keep the police engaged so the police won’t go into the village to protect the people.
The other group now marched into the village and started going from house to house with petrol and weapons. They sliced and matcheted people then doused them with petrol and burnt them to ashes. They this to almost a 100 houses and killed over 200 people in this manner. This was done for 3hours from 11pm to 2am. The only reason the massacre was not far worse and did not go on for longer was the brave youths in the village who repelled and resisted these barbaric inhuman animals.
Children. Women. Men. Grandmothers.
Attacked in their sleep. Sliced like animals. Burnt to unrecognisable ashes. It was a brutal carnage and a violent bloodbath.
This is what happened to the Benue people. And for 48 hours, the unfortunate incompetent nincompoop president of Nigeria said absolutely nothing until there was collective national outrage online led largely by many of us here.
The Pope spoke before that fool in Aso Rock said anything. A lawmaker in the USA tweeted about the matter before Tinubu said anything. VDM flew to Benue and till now, Tinubu has not yet visited.
What kind of country with a heartless brainless soulless president is this? And when he finally speaks on the matter, he tells the governor to organise “dialogue and reconciliation”????
Dialogue and reconciliation with who?
How do you reconcile with faceless terrorist landgrabbers and godless verminous savages who invade your land at night slicin your throat in your sleep and burning you to crumbling ashes? How do you reconcile with that?
If you have no idea what happened in Benue state, this is actually the story of it as narrated by eye witnesses in the video.
I have no words but tears for Benue.
Please 🙏🏿 I beg you all let us lend our voice for Benue. Let us all speak up for them.
The media is corrupt and compromised.
The politicians are nonchalant and simply don’t care. The religious elite are not bothered as long as it doesn’t affect their tithes. That useless shameless organisation called CAN (of worms) has said absolutely nothing since yesterday. My point in all of this is that Benue has nobody to speak for them or fight for them apart from us.
If we don’t speak, that state will be wiped out. I beg you all again please 🙏🏿 let us lend our voice for Benue. Let us all speak up for them.
Today it is Benue. Tomorrow it may be you.
Please share this tweet everywhere. Use the hashtag. Create awareness. Please 🙏🏿
#EndBenueGenocide #EndBenueGenocide
Since @the_mindsetgirl has decided to lock her "X" handle since morning, it's better I post all I found out about her "false" info 2 days ago about "My father's tribe told me I wasn't a part of them in 2017".
After coming across her thread early today, I painstakingly took my
NORTHERN GOVERNORS AND THEIR ETHNICITY:
1. Adamawa State – Ahmadu Umaru Fintiri (MARGHI)
2. Bauchi State – Bala Mohammed (FULANI)
3. Benue State – Rev. Fr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia (TIV)
4. Borno State – Engr. Prof. Babagana Zulum (KANURI)
5. Gombe State – Muhammad Inuwa Yahaya (FULANI)
6. Jigawa State – Umar Namadi (FULANI)
7. Kaduna State – Uba Sani (FULANI)
8. Kano State – Abba Kabir Yusuf (FULANI)
9. Katsina State – Dikko Umaru Radda (FULANI)
10. Kebbi State – Nasir Idris (FULANI)
11. Kogi State – Usman Ododo (EBIRA)
12. Kwara State – AbdulRahman AbdulRasaq (FULANI)
13. Nasarawa State – Abdullahi Sule (FULANI)
14. Niger State – Mohammed Umar Bago (NUPE)
15. Plateau State – Caleb Mutfwang (MWANGHAVUL)
16. Sokoto State – Ahmed Aliyu (FULANI)
17. Taraba State – Arch. Agbu Kefas (JUKUN)
18. Yobe State – Mai Mala Buni (KANURI)
19. Zamfara State – Dauda Lawal (FULANI)
HERE IS THE ANALYSIS:
Northern Nigeria has 19 states and 19 governors. Out of these, 10 governors are Fulanis, while the remaining 9 governors represent over 300 other ethnic groups in the region.
Now, consider this:
The Hausa ethnic group, with a population of over 66 million according to World Atlas—that’s over 55% of the entire Northern population—has no single governor.
All their states are ruled by Fulanis, who have a population of just 13 million, barely 11% of the Northern population.
Nigeria is composed of three major ethnic groups: Hausa, Yoruba, and Igbo with Hausas having the largest population.
Yoruba have 6 governors,
Igbo have 5 governors,
But Hausas have not even one—because the Fulanis have politically and strategically enclaved them.
With this arrangement, why won't the Fulani bandits k!ll, maim and rape Hausa and other tribes peacefully and wantonly with utmost impunity?
The Hausas accepted the Fulanis peacefully, embracing them due to shared religious beliefs. But eventually, their traditional rulers were eliminated, and a Fulani oligarchy was installed.
Today, the political leadership of the Hausas is no longer theirs. Are simply reduced to beggars and gate keepers. They are robbed of even education.
Hausas have become tools in the hands of Fulanis during elections. They are mere shadows in their own land, despite their numbers.
Currently they are going through unimaginable hardship, and those of us who understand the Hausa language know the kind of lamentations they are voicing daily.
It's so funny that even Kanuri people are wiser than them. They never allow Fulanis to conquer Borno and Yobe State. That's why they can still raise their head up in their own land.
This conquest is not coincidence—it is an agenda.
They have already succeeded in Kwara and Nasarawa States—both in the Middle Belt—and are tactically spreading their tentacles to other States in our religion and extending down to the south.
This agenda has been in motion for over 200 years.
Just recently, it was funny that Benue traditional leaders, instead of acting decisively, were holding peace meetings with the same people everyone knows will never honor such peace.
You cannot negotiate peace with someone who is intentional about hurting you.
You cannot negotiate with terrorists.
Once they settle in your community, their next move is to seize your traditional and political leadership, and eventually, they will seek to erase your identity and history.
I was stunned when I saw a Fulani man contesting for the House of Representatives for Akwanga/Nasarawa Eggon/Wamba Federal Constituency. Imagine that. When I raised concerns, an Eggon friend replied, “His mother is Eggon.”
What a level of blindness!
That is exactly how the agenda works—they come to graze, settle, infiltrate, blend, and then rob you of your land and leadership.
Benue State must wake up—before it’s too late.
If you are in doubt about my research do it yourself and the outcome will shock you.
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@IruefiNG List of care homes that’ll offer COS and not collect money
-chesterlodge care home
- vale court care home
- st Cyril rehabilitation unit
-orchard manor care home
-Wepre villa care home
-Barchester care homes
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I love how Ìjẹ̀bú people brag with money 😊
Besides the fact that you cannot completely praise their lineage without mentioning money, Ìjẹ̀bú people are the ones I know with many of their names bearing the prefix "Owó"
I mean an Ìjẹ̀bú guy recently whose surname is Owóńlá (Big Money). Which other Ìjẹ̀bú names that have the prefix "Owó" do you know?
The Blindsight device from Neuralink will enable even those who have lost both eyes and their optic nerve to see.
Provided the visual cortex is intact, it will even enable those who have been blind from birth to see for the first time.
To set expectations correctly, the vision will be at first be low resolution, like Atari graphics, but eventually it has the potential be better than natural vision and enable you to see in infrared, ultraviolet or even radar wavelengths, like Geordi La Forge.
Much appreciated, @US_FDA!
Perhaps I should not be alive. But I am. Despite the odds, I turn 58 today. I am still frail and fragile. But now, I can stand on my feet again, bearing testimony to those sacred words of the Almighty Allah himself that, “No soul can ever die except by Allah���s leave and at a term appointed (Quran 3: 145).”
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