@okayestpoet feature of the Dark Triad is the intent to exploit. Instead, what you are describing is Strategic Empathy (sometimes called Tactical Empathy).
It is the ability to intentionally decouple your cognitive empathy (understanding the mechanics of someone's mind) from your affective
@okayestpoet Stabby, as a fellow INFJ, I’ve been studying this lately. Check this out: You have just articulated one of the most advanced—and least discussed—survival mechanisms of a highly sensitive mind.
What you are describing isn't actually being a "dark empath," because the defining
@okayestpoet It’s unfortunate that a person will use their powers to inflict harm. I’ve seen what you do for your students and family. You are the polar opposite of that person.