Do you know the funny thing about women? They're performative.
They always want to appear like they're doing the most in order to be worshipped by men.
The only thing she's actually doing here is cooking.
She could have simply dropped the baby she was carrying at the couch.
The two children beside her doesn't count as any form of stress. Just hungry kids wanting to eat mummy food.
And her being pregnant shouldn't stop any woman from cooking.
At the end of the day, there's nothing here. Just a pregnant woman cooking and who intentionally chose to carry a baby along.
On the other hand, guess who provided for the food her and the children will eat?
Guess who'll pay for the hospital bills when she delivers the baby?
Guess who's providing and paying the school fees of the children?
Guess who's paying the rent of that house?
Guess who's doing all in his capacity to put a smile on his family face?
Guess who now has to double his hustle to feed and provide for another child?
Yes! The man sitting in the couch watching TV. But trust women to want to be worshipped for doing the bare minimum while the man who does the real work just sees it as his responsibility and not something to be praised for.
As a man, better marry a traditional woman with family values who sees her wifely roles and obligations as her duties and not slavery.
Have been looking at myself in the mirror and thinking about my life, this year makes it my 14 years in marriage.
Guy, let me tell you the achievement I have achieved all this years, 6 children. Na 6 children be my achievement in 14 years in marriage.
This thing is really annoying me. Abi na only to born, born, born I come do for this marriage? The thing just dey vex me one kind...
Woman cries out after 14 years of marriage, says she has no achievement except six children.
My man told me something the other day that lowkey rearranged my brain a little.
He said, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your father, I’m your partner. You’re grown, you can make whatever choices you want. Just know every choice comes with consequences. If you pick something that hurts what we built, that decision belongs to you.”
Then he goes, “I’m always gonna tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s how real communication works. But if I show you where the line is and you keep stepping over it, then you’re not protecting us… you’re just choosing yourself.”
And yeah… that’s when it clicked for me. Accountability in a relationship isn’t yelling, rules, or control. It’s someone giving you freedom and trusting you to care enough not to misuse it.
@ElizabethDese Sometimes it’s not the money or the gift, it’s knowing someone believes in you when you’re struggling.
That kind of support can change everything.
If someone had told him he’d become a billionaire in the next five years, he wouldn’t have believed it. This isn’t a Nollywood script, this is real life.
This was like 5-6 years ago at the spare parts market in Alagutan Iyana ipaja Lagos🤣🤣
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Stay motivated , foreverINprofit🥂