ADHD aside I remember when I said something like “your friends are afraid to say anything about their needs in the relationship because it’s held up by them not saying anything about your unacceptable behavior” and I got dragged. I hope y’all get called out more idrc
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i don’t think there is anyone more annoying that a person whose defense of their bad behavior is that they’re self aware about said habit, yet do absolutely nothing to change it
As someone with ADHD and severe time blindness, it’s not a moral failing but when you reorient your thinking a little to “what is my social responsibility towards others” you will understand that other people’s time is valuable and you gotta show up a little early for them.
It gets to a point where you’ve just got to stop correcting bad behavior and simply end the relationship.
Else, you’ll be in a constant loop of complain > reconcile > bad pattern repeats itself > complain > reconcile…