@iamchrizten Unless you have complete support from your wife and complete headship of your household, instilling discipline is impossible today. The society, the mother, and the children all want freedom without responsibility.
Gotta STAY CLEAR of folks who don't value the small sacrifices you make... like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you tired, giving advice, carrying their problems, or being the one who always checks in first. Some people only love the benefits, never the person. They'll use your energy just to go pour it into everybody but the one who's actually helping them.