Let me tell you one sad truth.
The reason why there's a low divorce rate in Nigeria as compared to other countries is because, divorce in Nigeria doesn't benefit women.
If it does, the divorce in Nigeria would have been worse than other countries.
And that's what you young ladies should do.
It's enough that some of your bfs are cheating on you.
But if they're so stupid to get another lady pregnant, & the lady wants to keep the pregnancy, then you should not be part of that unhealthy entanglement.
Tell him bye bye.
It's painful.
Especially if you have also been faithful, & sacrificed & stayed committed to the relationship.
Do not allow your feelings to betray your judgment.
It's completely different if you're married, & your husband betrays you this way.
Because you're now married, & there are lots of complexities that come with marriage.
So you may wish to remain in your marriage, & deal with your husband & defend your place from the side chick.
But you're single in this case.
And you deserve to be with a man who would start afresh with you, & make you his wife & mother of his first child.
End.
Things to teach your kids;
- Chess
- First aid
- Resilience
- Astronomy
- Persuasion
- Adaptability
- Self-respect
- Self-defence
- Cooking skills
- Assertiveness
- Managing time
- A good attitude
- Public speaking
- Problem solving
- Self-awareness
- Gardening skills
- How to volunteer
- How to negotiate
- Living off the land
- Basic home repair
- Starting a business
- Money management
- Good communication
- Don’t watch the news
- Emotional intelligence
- How to manage stress
- Basic car maintenance
- How to make a decision
- How to influence people
- How to be a great mother
- It’s okay to feel your emotions
- Mental frameworks for thinking
- Understanding healthy relationships
- Building others up, not tearing them down
- Problem-solving over memorization
- Exploration over conformity
- Creativity over rote learning
- The value of hard work.
- How to be kind to everyone.
- Why failure is the path to success.
- How to think, not what to think.
- How to adapt, not conform.
- How to lead, not follow.
- How to create, not consume.
- Taking care of animals.
- Good use of language.
- Opposite sex relationships.
- Healhy food choices.
- Music, listening and performing.
- General culture.
- Foreign languages.
- Leadership.
- Stoicism.
- Fasting.
- Sports.
- Video games.
- Spirituality.
- Travelling.
- Copywriting.
- Drawing.
- Self love.
What would you add?
A few hours ago, someone was healthy, full of joy, singing "I will see the end of this year, this year will never see my end"
Before the day ended, the person is no more💔.
This life is fragile and unpredictable.
Life does not give notice.
Humility, kindness, and gratitude should never wait till tomorrow.
Love people loudly, forgive quickly, and stop postponing the things that matter.
Cherish every moment, speak words that heal, and live as if today might be your last.
Tomorrow is not promised, even to the strongest.