@Celesteamadon Both are only telling half of the story
- men don't want to commit to the type of women that they have access to (dating down)
- women want effort from the type of guys that they give a chance to (dating up)
Both are symptoms of a broken dating market, if monogamy is the goal
@martyrdison One time I did this and put her phone in my pocket. We proceeded to get drunk and forget that I did and spent half hour looking for it in the club...
@BowTiedBull When you spend a decade as an adult and see all the people around you (and possibly you yourself) doing fuck all with their lives all that time, the "experience" loses value in your eyes for sure
@marcosalvarado_ Personal development slop. Beyond taking basic care of your health, navel gazing will not get you anywhere. Pick something and work on it and take it from there.
@thedulab People talk about Olympians getting post medal depression not having goals anymore. But that also comes with years/decades of bliss from having a clear cut motivation and not having to question it.
Nothing will burn you out more than constantly thinking about your life. Am I on the right path, am I in the right environment, am I doing the right things. Insert the dozens of other background loops that remain in flux
Has less to do with your level of physical exertion, more with how many decisions remain uncommitted to. Could hypothetically be going hard all day but you're in your element, it'd still exhaust you less than cutting your hours in half but with no conviction in anything you do
Money is not the issue. Nothing tangible is the issue. Yet. First order of business is to simply muster up the courage to make a decision. Doesn't have to be permanent, doesn't mean you're stuck with it forever, just has to be chosen in accordance with your heart
@NASHVILLE_LEE@LifeMathMoney Yeah lol. Discipline to resist things is not really discipline if there are no things to resist available. Same way as kindness from position of weakness is not really kindness cause it's not a choice.
@BadgerBastard0@cremieuxrecueil True. When I pulled some shit at school, my mom would call me up to tell me that I'm getting a biblical ass whooping as soon as she gets home from work ๐