As a country we've convinced ourselves that violence is justifiable. This is general across the world of course but it's elevated in South Africa. There are just so many things that so many people are like "I'm willing to kill for this" and that's sad
I really believe deadbeatism is a symptom of the contempt men have for women.
It’s never an accident, has always been in their plans for you.
The intention? To ensure your life gets layers of difficulty, strife, disappointment & hurt added to it
HATE this pseudo-woke advice that ultimately shifts the burden of men’s irresponsibility onto women. We can encourage women to be financially prepared without normalising the expectation that they must be prepared to raise children alone. It can quickly turn victim-blamey too.
I don’t see why this lady has to suffer the indignity of endless explanations to us on the timeline. He must just sort out what he needs to. Access is a conversation that can be had much later down the line.
I just want to tell everyone that I’m struggling to show up for myself even and I just need a break from my personal life kancane. 😭 Every week ngiyachaza. 😭💔