do you know how utterly soul-destroying it is to see old pieces of text written by you with the full understanding that you will never be able to write that way again. you simply cannot string sentences together in the same manner. your lexicon has shrunk. your brain is fried
avoidant: i need you to understand my boundaries.
me: of course.
avoidant: i need space when i'm overwhelmed.
me: okay.
me: i need reassurance when i'm anxious.
avoidant: you're exhausting.
me: so your needs are boundaries, but mine are fucking problems?
avoidant: that's not what i meant.
me: funny how your feelings need protection, but mine need permission.
kenapa ya mayoritas orang indo yg gw temui tuh masih beranggapan gaji sedikit tuh cukup asal bersyukur, LAHH YA MAKANYA KEMARIN DIPERJUANGKAANN, biar hidup enak, kerja enak, gaji banyak, apa apa murah
orang kok maunya meromantisasi miskin terus, silit lah
@HeiiiSasha Lucu sih liatnya kalau misalnya antar perempuan seringnya suka benci satu sama lain. Tapi sesama perempuan biasanya bersatu untuk benci laki2 wkwkwk 😭
I am men.
Dan menurut saya, saya tahu lebih banyak cara mendidik anak dibanding bocah kecil man hater seperti kalian.
Saya tau gimana ganti pokok, mandiin anak, gendong bayi baru lahir, ganti bedong, tidurin anak, kasih pendidikan, ajak main, nyuapin, dan banyak hal lain.
I used to be genuinely bothered by this too but eventually I realized that developing feelings is also a natural part of the friendship and you shouldn't blame people for liking you lmao
what you SHOULD do is blame them for not handling the rejection properly which happens a lot
Tapi emg ada orang kayak gini. Ngetes suami cemburu atau nggak, ngetes suami marah atau nggak, ngetes suami royal atau nggak, ngetes suami effort atau nggak, giliran ekspektasinya gak sesuai tantrum sendiri.
Semoga Allah jauhkan kalian semua dari tipe orang banyak drama gini.
Jgn pernah giniin org yg pulang kerja. Kita ga tau apa yg dia hadapi di kantor. Bayangin kalo ternyata dia abis didamprat bos, dan cuma pengen cepet2 pulang ke rumah biar bisa istirahat saking lelah lahir batin, tapi malah dikunciin? 🥲
Kalo ga bisa meringankan, jgn memperberat.
Terserah mau setuju atau engga🙏🏻
makin kesini banyak yg mau punya pasangan, tapi 0 effort, komunikasi jelek, insecure berlebihan, dan anehnya, they want a relationship without being ready for the commitment and responsibility that come with it…