A mf can be the kindest, funniest, most charming, most sweet, most hospitable, most chivalrous person you ever met and actually factually be someone else’s worst fucking nightmare. Sometimes you have to decenter your personal experience & accept that it is not the end-all, be-all
i never liked the idea of treating people how they treat you. treat others how you like to be treated and set better boundaries around what you’re willing to accept. stand solid in who you are and be ready to walk away. one is reactive and one is proactive.