Ask her if she had a son.
Would she advise her son to have a certain amount he is sending to a grown ass woman every month.
Ask her would she advise her son to settle down with a single mother of 2
Her answer will be βNoβ
Manje okaban lomntwana ekmele ebeyislima Seyifebeπ
And when you pray tonight..pray for the ability to limit access. Not everyone needs to have access to you. Some people are there to keep track of how far you are in life. You know your people, deny access from people who havenβt spoke to you in a long time. Stop oversharing too!
NEW: Security camera footage of the attack on Black teens at a pool in South Africa provides a more complete picture of what happened. You can see a white man stopping the boys at the gate & almost all the white swimmers getting out of the pool when one of the teens gets in.