i used to take things personal… now i just take notes. every lie, every inconsistency, every weird vibe… it all be information. and once you start paying attention instead of making excuses, a lot of people disqualify themselves real quick.
imagine being a grown adult & your whole personality still drama, shade, jealousy & gossip. still worried about people who moved on from you years ago… still bringing up old stuff… still stuck in the same energy. no healing. no growth. no accountability… 30+ & still unhealed…
i’m so happy i was raised the way i was, i didn’t appreciate it back then, but the way some of yall talk, think, speak, get over, scheme, lie, back door, & back stab.. i’m thankful for the integrity, morals & dignity i was taught.
hoes gon do wtv for the sake of they kid(s) they don’t gaf abt ur feelings or if u a good catch nothin! all they care abt is how they gon provide for they yb. I get in my feelings and take the shit they b doing personal forgettin dey in survival mode whole time. It ain’t personal