@Guyinthesky_ Like okay maybe some people look like that, sure, but I can assure you it’s not a majority, and if you are consistently making a pattern to only draw people that specific way, it definitely becomes more like a caricature than representation
@Guyinthesky_ I get people wanting to rep GNC trans people. I’m GNC trans people (neither transfem nor transmasc). But it becomes an issue when people go out of there way to portray every fucking binary trans people that way as well as only ever portraying binary trans people that way.
@soliepyri Like it doesn’t matter so I won’t entertain the question. They don’t me as my actual gender anyway, so I sure as hell ain’t telling them my AGAB. Don’t ever let people have the ability to box you into a category you don’t want to be in fr fr
@soliepyri People feeling entitled to knowing your AGAB is like the number one reason I refuse to let anyone definitively know what my gender even is lol. Technically I fall under the nonbinary category, but thats not my gender so I don’t really answer to it, lest people ask ‘AFAB or AMAB?’
@cuddlecutegirls I guess it comes down to people’s personal preferences? Like I hate being called enby for example but other people like it.
Ig it should just be something people self-identify with rather than the immediate assumption that they want to be called that particular term.
@cuddlecutegirls Im nonbinary so correct me if I’m overstepping but the term doll has always made me quirk an eyebrow because a doll is an object, no? I’ve noticed it being used in a way to objectify/3rd gender trans women. People will be really quick to call trans women dolls but not… women.
@cherryragdoll It is quite interesting how they view sucking dick as some inherently degrading act whilst simultaneously claiming to be feminists. Who cares that much if someone sucks dick? And they have the gall to claim trans people are the ones with weird views on sex lmfao
@regalada_llaga It’s dehumanization. If you consider a group as a but hypothetical, it becomes easier to hate said people. Because you don’t really consider them people at all. It’s more complex when you have to grapple with reality, so they ignore it, ironically what they claim trans people do
@lyvvra It’s also rather telling how they see dicks as a tool of oppression rather than just a an organ someone can have. Its bioessentialism. Having or not having a penis doesn’t dictate how you treat people, your personality and views do. The patriarchy doesn’t run on dicks.
@lyvvra Terfs watering down people to just their genitalia? Fork found in kitchen. I doubt they even understand asexuality exists. Nuance isn’t exactly considered within their ideology.
@theunknown31811 Obv ppls hearts are in the right place with those kinds of platitudes, but it for sure downplays frustrations regarding transitioning later. The time loss. I don’t think its ever too late to start but it’s undeniable most ppl would’ve been happier if they started earlier
@jestom Truth nuke. People turning nonbinary into a weird 3rd type of gender rather than acknowledging it as a category containing multitudes of identities is why I’ve stopped using the label for the most part. Like technically that’s the category I fall under, but it’s not my gender yk.
@EeriePip@aretheygay It’s extra funny when people try to distance themselves from nb ppl by using transsexual when a lot of nb ppl are also transsexual.
(Me. I’m nb ppl. I’ve been on HRT for years.)
I understand those who want the distinction but a lot of ppl do turn it into a hierarchy thing. Sad
@foidraper8813@DreamLeaf5 Genuinely curious—I’m sure you don’t believe nonbinary identities are a valid thing, but how do you view people who align with them? I’m intrigued.