My issue is simple:
I dislike women who focus solely on the negatives of men and the positives of women, and I dislike men who focus solely on the negatives of women, and the positives of men.
I donโt like people who think their sex is uniquely good and the opposite sex is uniquely evil.
This doesnโt mean you shouldnโt be able to share critical truths about the opposite sex. Unflattering wisdom should not be conveniently hand-waved or dismissed as hate, because itโs uncomfortable to hear. Gripes often do contain real kernels of truth. Resentments do not happen without cause, nor occur in a vacuum.
But if that is your fixation, if your fixation is always on the negatives of your opposite and you are so utterly and totally blind to their beauty to the extent you donโt even think it exists - that says far more about you than it does about them.
The ugliness you see in them, is in you. You have stared too long into the abyss, until the abyss stared back into you: and devoured you.
Girl, go get checked for fibroids & endometriosis. The overly painful periods & bloating isnโt normal!
I know weโve been conditioned to think unbearable menstrual pain is normal. Itโs not. Go see a gynecologist for that!!!