@Theholisticpsyc Our relationship should be our safe space cos we trust the intentions of our partner enough to be vulnerable with them, showing our weaknesses without fear of being judged by them.
Our partner shouldn't shame us for actions they know we're ashamed of ourselves and improving.
Relationships should feel: uplifting, supportive, and overall mutually beneficial.
Of course there will be ‘tough times’ and painful moments. People will hurt us. We all hurt each other.
But if pain, hurt, and resentment are all that’s present, it might be time to choose yourself.
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When we're unhealed, we're attracted to the "bad boy," chaotic, or unpredictable people. They give us the hit of adrenaline our body craves that we call passion. They allow us to play our familiar role of working or proving ourselves to be loved, just as we did as children. As we heal, we're attracted to safe predictable people whose words match their actions. Who show us love beyond survival mode.
Very excited to announce that after a long stretch of being Literally Hitler I've become Ideologically Stalin.
With luck, hard work and your continued support, I believe I can make Vlad the Impaler by Christmas.
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