After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
I don't speak on mama trauma because my rant always goes back to destigmatizing abortions & forcing women to confront that they don't want children, they don't have the skills to be mothers & that they have no inherent gene that will make them good mothers if they're not that great of a person. Barely anyone will support you, not even their father; even if he married you. If you have any sort of insecurity or self esteem issue & have a daughter, she will trigger you & you will harm her. If you are lonely, you will traumatize your son with emotional incest. Mothers can traumatize & children navigate that trauma even more bizarre because they're told mothers are inherently great parents. Children internalize adult trauma as their doing. We must unpack the realities of MANY adult with mama trauma!
Sorry for beating a dead horse but itโs really funny how some womenโs chosen response to other women saying that they have experienced cruelty from their same gender is to be mean to them some more ๐
FBA family, we have to pay attention to stories like this and ask questions.
Is this how our Black teens/children are going missing and we're finding them unalived in these 'su*cide/hang*ngs'? ๐ค
Putting aside what this person is claiming, its interesting to see how little empathy other women have for this woman talking about abuse from her mom. I've found women love to bond over father issues or bad exes but when its a girl with mother issues its dead silent..
No one can handle the fact that some mothers do not love their children. I have had therapists lose their cool and get extremely activated when I tell them that my mother does not love me.