healing is not about becoming someone who is always calm.
it’s about learning to recognize:
“this is my wound speaking.”
being mature isn’t about having no wounds. it’s about not using those wounds as a reason to hurt other people.
gua emang krisis kepercayaan, tp jangan mikir gua gak try HARD untuk percaya sama sekitar gua... found out so many things in the past few days, and i feel so betrayed. the disrespect was so loud, but the apology didnt even make a sound☺️
@tanyarlfes 7 tahun nggak dapet kejutan = 7 tahun nggak ngomong maunya apa.
Dia udah ngasih 1,2jt + kasih kesempatan buat milih sendiri.
Coba sekali-sekali bilang “tahun ini aku mau kamu yang beliin ya”, jangan kode mulu.