A reminder from Atomic Habits by James Clear:
“Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity. This is one reason why meaningful change does not require radical change. Small habits can make a meaningful difference by providing evidence of a new identity. And if a change is meaningful, it is actually big. That's the paradox of making small improvements.”
tapi keknya di indo apa aja jadi aib deh kalo gue perhatikan, gue nggak tau ya kenapa orang kita itu punya kecenderungan senang membuat orang lain merasa gagal dengan narasi yg menurut gue absurd.
tips hidup tenang di indo :
- lulus kuliah umur 21-22
- wajib kerja umur 22-23
- menikah maksimal umur 27 (ini udah keitung tua)
- sebelum nikah harus punya rumah
- setelah menikah wajib punya anak setahun kemudian, minimal punya anak dua
- umur 30 harus punya mobil
lanjut—
One of the most brutal realities of the male experience that nobody talks about is the absolute "affection desert" they live in. A woman can get a hug, a genuine compliment, and deep emotional support from her platonic friends on a random Tuesday. A man can go an entire calendar year without another human being touching his arm, asking if he's okay, or giving him a sincere compliment. We’ve built a society where a man only gets to experience basic human warmth if he is actively providing for a partner. Outside of that, he is completely invisible.
realistically, yes. but love doesn’t work that way. cinta itu UNCONSCIOUS……. PURE……. SPONTANEOUS……… jangan biarkan kapitalisme merusak cinta yang tumbuh di sela-sela selokan negara!!!!!!!!!
@miniloveattack nah inilah yg ga disukai sm kaum standar tiktok firstdate wajib ke resto + bayarin jajan + beliin barang, yg pas makan kerjanya cm main hp selfie dan tiktokan😍😍😍