@lomllyss the fact that any of these things come up because someone willingly spends hours scrolling and scrolling and reviewing other peoples not publicized content.... its just so mean-spirited all around and idk sad i think to not have anything better to do
The leak of past problematic behavior has like almost nothing to do with h or c themselves, and entirely to do with wanting to "watch the world burn" and feel a sense of control and active participation in the knocking down of the "opposing" side of a fandom. How disgusting.
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i do think we have a real problem with digging through their pasts to find problematic things simply for fan wars while completely forgetting about the communities that get effected by these issues daily.
stop with the “heated rivalry was a mistake” and “i wish i never found heated rivalry” leave them alone :( this series literally changed so many people’s perspectives, helped them be braver, and got them through so much. the real issue is people obsessing over the actors personal lives. we don't know them, they are strangers to us. i truly don't get how some of you can dig so deep just to tear down a celebrity who doesn't even know you.
i’m not going to stop being a fan and I’m not going to cancel actors I like bc one person’s best friend is being accused of something and the other has 917229 terrible friends. They can deal with their own friendships. I’m a fan of Connor and Hudson, not of whatever bad friends they may have
So let me get this straight.
A woman in her young twenties, new to Los Angeles, agrees to meet a guy after talking online under the impression he’s roughly her age. Instead, a significantly older man, looking around 35 shows up having already misrepresented himself.
She immediately notices abnormal behavior, he walks into the bar scanning the room instead of engaging with her, hyper aware of his surroundings, acting visibly strange enough that alarm bells start going off.
Then, within minutes, he pivots into telling her he manages influencers and OnlyFans girls, which in practical terms often means acting as a pimp and then he starts aggressively pressuring a young woman he barely knows to start doing sex work, move to Miami with his help, and let him grow her brand.
So from her perspective
Lied about who he was.
Showed up significantly older than expected.
Displayed bizarre hyper vigilant behavior.
Immediately introduced sexualized financial exploitation.
Began attempting to recruit an isolated young woman new to a major city.
And your conclusion is,
“HAHA WOMEN SAY THEY’RE STRONG BUT THEY CRY.”
No, dipshit.
What you just watched was a woman recognizing, in hindsight, that she had likely just encountered a predator.
Women don’t spend their lives learning situational awareness because the world is full of good hearted entrepreneurial alpha males.
They do it because men like this exist.
And after escaping a high adrenaline situation, the nervous system processes the threat afterward. It’s called a delayed stress response. Fairly basic neurobiology, though admittedly concepts above a 7th grade reading level tend to struggle in manosphere circles.
What’s genuinely fascinating is how men who spend every waking hour screaming about protecting women are almost always the first ones mocking women for correctly identifying dangerous men.
Which tells us the quiet part out loud.
You don’t actually hate women being emotional.
You hate women recognizing predatory male behavior before men like that can benefit from it.
But sure, Richard. Tell us more about female irrationality while publicly demonstrating why women have to develop situational awareness in the first place.
Outstanding work.
I was raised by a single father and he always took me into the women's restroom when we were in public. He would announce himself as accompanying his daughter and it was never an issue.
We complain when men aren't active fathers, but then turn around and police a dad just trying to take his tiny daughter to the bathroom? Let parents protect their kids in peace. Creep behavior is making a scene over a toddler.