Why the need to calm anyone down, the more they vent the better everyone will be afterwards. Earplugs are cheap. Rational articulate conversation can end hysterics. More commonly both parties end up feeding on the negative and escalating. More often people of equal intelligence find each other, and don't know how to climb their way out of their bad moments.
@WorkElizab It would never happen. Any church I would go to would never do such a thing. The churches I go to do not change their rules for new trends. And no, I'm not a Muslim, Jewish or Jehovah witness and obviously not a Catholic.
@RadioGenoa There will always be bad Crazy people around but what's worse is the other people standing around doing nothing, enjoying the show. They wonder why the little skinny white kids end up shooting up places.