i use to be afraid of losing people until i realized most of them were never really down for me anyways. even though my loyalty and love for them ran deep, they could care less. so instead of being afraid of losing them, i fell back and watched them lose me
Let go. Love them from a distance. Let them figure out their feelings, what they want in life, where they are going and who they want to be. Focus on yourself and your goals while giving them space. And remember, you're not obligated to still be there waiting when they're ready.