i genuinely think one of the most intimate things in the entire world is wanting someone when your tired like wow i just had the longest day ever and don’t want to speak to anyone but i really want you next to me
you know what’s super attractive to me? when a man can calmly talk to u in times of disagreement. even in spite of their frustration in the moment. not being a hot head and talking crazy, no character assassination. just calmly and rationally responding with patience