@Mitois1ansanity Thank you 🫂
I relate to that a lot. Being compared to other parts can be really painful, especially when people seem to prefer one over another. Every part is still part of us and deserves the same love and respect
Ugh… My friend is one of the few people who knows I have DID. She was in town because I was having a medical emergency, and commented when I switched in, saying that she was glad to see “this insert name”, as opposed to the other ones who can be sullen and withdrawn.(+)
I felt shame,scraped raw and unsafe, because I don’t like people noticing when I’m different as opposed to chalking it up to me being in a different mood,or just having a different opinion on something. On one hand, I suppose it’s validating that it’s noticeable to somebody else+