ngl, the worst side of me is my ANGER. i be minding my business, overly laid back, and i don’t be doing too much but the moment i feel disrespected, i turn into a whole different person and i wouldn’t even recognise myself in that moment.
Funny enough, you can do all of this as a man, but the day you refuse to buy her flowers or have a disagreement with her, she will tell the world that you don’t do anything in the home. Women only care about these things as long as you are on good terms.
When the situation changes, she will look you in the eye and tell the world that you never did anything in the home. I am a married man, and I am telling you…they are all the same. They won’t remember all this when thing go left.
i be so cool on alot because i got betrayed & blind sided in ways i wouldn’t have imagined & didn’t even deserve it .. it’ll naturally make u just shut down & stay to yourself, loyalty & solid people are just rare.
i never wanted anyone to fix me or solve my problems. All I ever wanted was to feel heard and understood, to know that someone recognized how painful my experiences were.