Setelah lulus kuliah, belajar berdiri di kaki sendiri. Never ask anyone for things that i wanted. Mau solo travel ke luar negeri, nabungnya lamaa dgn gaji yg imut di Jkt. Setelah akhirnya nikah, ternyata rasanya aneh buat minta ke suami.. either uang or barang.
Imo, if you think your surroundings doesn't support you to grow. The least thing we can do is read a book, any kind of book. If there's no money in the pocket, get it from library or even get the cheap copies. Just try to read anything.
Any kind of book can broaden our perspective and shape the way we think more deeply. Aku pribadi suka baca novel, karena it feels entertaining kayak kita nonton film aja, tp lebih deep. Biarpun dibilang bacaannya ga bermutu, well i think everyone has their cup of tea.
Beberapa masih stuck sampe tengah, beberapa gak sampe akhir, terus udah onto the next book lagi :( Padahal dulu bisa yg kayak baca 5cm yg around 500an halaman bisa cuma 2 hari. Missing those days..
Now that Iโm an adult, I think Iโm living one or two of those characters from the random metropop and teenlit novels I used to read back in school.
you need to be delusionally optimistic
negative thinking poisons your brain and leads to congitive decline
whereas positive thinking, and gaslighting yourself into thinking everything is amazing, ACTUALLY makes your life amazing too.
you must be a silly goose
โFishesโ from The Bear (2022โ ) feels like spending an hour trapped inside the most stressful family dinner imaginable. Every conversation keeps stacking tension on top of tension until the entire episode feels ready to implode at any second.
@gyulugyuluu@ainoobeat Saya juga waktu itu solo traveler stay di hostel di Asakusa. Deket tempat makan, oleh2, stasiun ga begitu jauh. Di hostel sekamar sama 2 solo traveller lain dr Indonesia juga, akhirnya jalan bareng ๐