Kalpten çıkmanın en iyi yolu, karşı tarafın kararına saygı duymaktır. Anlaman gerek ki, karşı taraf bağımsız bir bireydir; kimi seveceğine, kimi sevmeyeceğine ve kiminle ömrünü geçirmek istediğine dair kendi hakkına sahiptir. Ne kadar derin bir sevgi paylaşmış olursanız olun, ne kadar emek vermiş olursanız olun, bunlar karşı tarafı yanınızda tutma talebi için bir gerekçe olamaz. O, sizin geleceğinizten çekilmeye karar verdi; bu onun seçimi. Senin yapabileceğin tek şey üzülmekten ibaret, başka hiçbir şey değiştiremezsin. Aşk, emek harcayarak karşılığında bir şeyler satın alabileceğin bir alışveriş değildir; sevmemek, sevmemek demektir, sürekli olarak eskiden ne kadar sevdiğinizi düşünerek bu ilişkiyi böyle bitirmemeli diye diretme. Geçmişteki sevgi gerçekti, şimdiki sevmezlik de gerçek. Onun seçimine saygı duy ve hayatını kendine geri ver.
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Let them leave, Let me move on.