I’m convinced when you rekindle a relationship with someone (friend, family, ex, etc), something will always resurface to show you why you should have left it burned and dried up.
I take EVERYTHING as a sign from God in life. Any small inconvenience. Like maybe I didn't need to go to this place, maybe I don't need this person in my life, that job may not be for me, and maybe this is saving me from something only GOD can see. No loses forever lessons.
I ain’t never claimed to be innocent. 😭 I’ll tell you exactly where I was wrong. I’ll apologize when I mean it. I’ll own my attitude, my mouth, my decisions. What I WON’T do is let somebody paint me like I woke up and randomly chose violence. 😂 Every version of me somebody hates was created by an experience they conveniently leave out. I’m not proud of every reaction… but I know exactly what triggered it. That’s the difference.
Every woman needs a season where nobody knows what she’s doing. Not her ex. Not her friends. Not social media. Just her, God, and the plan. Some blessings grow better in silence, and everybody don’t deserve access to the version of you that’s still being built.
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
i truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, funny, spontaneous God fearing husband
Start checking yourself. Start correcting yourself when you're being unnecessarily negative. Start minding your business when you realize you're policing someone's choices that do not have anything to do with you. Hold yourself accountable for goals you keep procrastinating on.
@ayekeeno She’s in complete denial about her involvement in his condition & why he’s not advancing as he should. And she uses religion & delusion to hide behind her guilt. It’s sad fr.