Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
I’ll never be in another relationship where my needs are not met and I feel ignored. When buying flowers or going on a date to the park or chill being in your company feels like a chore instead of a want.
Stop romanticizing someone who made you feel like an option instead of a priority. The good memories may be real, but they don't erase the moments that left you doubting your worth. Love shouldn't leave you constantly questioning where you stand. Don't get stuck replaying the highlights while ignoring the hurt. Sometimes the person you miss is the version of them you hoped they would be, not who they consistently showed themselves to be.
NOBODY TALKS ABOUT HOW DRAINING IT IS TO
BE A GOOD A** PERSON & its fcked up bc you really be caring about people or how they feel bc you always been a “what if it was me” type of person… but life is teaching me that PEOPLE ARE SELFISH af. And it don’t matter how good of a person you are, how good you been to them, or even how much love you be showing.. some people will never give you that same energy 💯 & I know for fact I ain’t the only one that feel this way fr & I know being a good person always got me blessed times 10 but ngl sometimes I be wanting to do people exactly how they do me but I know I can’t 💯
I don't believe in revenge but I do believe if you entered my life with bad intentions and tried to take advantage of my kindness in any way, you will eventually reap what you attempted to sow.
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.
i love seeing videos of yall obsessed with yall partners, loving yall partners, just really showing love- cause the rest of yall is weirdT & should be single & miserable the rest of ya life
doing a 30 day fast
- no smoking
- no alcohol
- no sugars
- no breads/starches
- cutting back on my vape
Just
- eating nothing but fruit
- drinking nothing but water
- self awareness
- gym 3-4 days out the week
- reading 10-15 pages of something everyday
- clear mindset
I'm at a weird place in life. My younger self was way more social and kept in touch with people I love. My current self is super introverted and don't really talk to people I love a lot but I still love em though. People probably be thinking ion fuck with em or I'm mad at em or something but that's not the case. I just be at peace when I'm closed off. I can interact on social media and shit because it's through a screen and I still have that space to be introverted but outside of social media I'm super closed off and don't even understand why myself. Maybe one day I'll come outta this shit or maybe not but It's all love either way.