True alchemists know you just gotta lean into your inner chaos in order to conjure something new. This is why people stuck in chronic avoidance also suffer for prolonged periods. There is no reward for avoiding yourself.
at my big age i really don’t think i can date without intention. one day ill be cool and the next im cutting you off because what i really want is someone who’s all the locked in and ready to settle down. nothing else gone work, idc how much i like you
no matter what you’re seeing in the physical, no matter what’s been said & done, no matter how long it’s been, no matter how you’re feeling - it’s already yours. focus. 👁️