Their final gift to you was repeating their pattern one last time so you could finally see that despite their potential, this is who they continuously choose to be.
Constantly blaming everyone else for all your problems and why no one wants to be in your life is an issue. Accountability is a big thing. You are the problem in every situation and it’s time to own up to that
Dating someone who prioritizes alcohol and drugs over getting sober will hold you back. Someone who can’t get clean and puts going out over your family while you do all the work to fix it will never be your soulmate or a good partner
i don’t know who needs to hear this, but it’s okay to still be fucking angry that the man who was supposed to love you forever ended up completely deceiving you and nearly destroyed your soul. you’re allowed to be angry forever about this.
Stop dating neurodivergent women if you refuse to understand how deeply inconsistency affects them. Mixed signals, emotional unpredictability, and changing expectations aren’t harmless they can be genuinely distressing. Empathy isn’t optional in a healthy relationship.