i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
The older I get, the more protective I become of my mental space. It takes too much work to heal, rebuild, refocus, and find peace again. That’s why I don’t romanticize second chances the way other people do. I’ve seen what the wrong person can cost.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
Like I said most times being alone is wayyyyy easier. Your nervous system is regulated. You make more money. Your energy is not being drained by petty arguments.
i’m having the most peaceful crashout of my life rn.. like i’m going insane, but also just chilling and vibing. i’m stressed about a bunch of stuff, but at the same time i’m not. i don't know how to explain it..
i love people who just naturally have manners, morals, self awareness, common sense and consideration for others. the kind who don't need to be told how to be kind, who move through the world without making it everyone else's problem, who think before they speak.
Sometimes we forget to thank the people who listen to our problems while they're dealing with their own. That's pure love and it shouldn't be taken for granted
I be feeling bad about being on bad terms with people I really love, I be wanting to reach out and fix shit but I just can’t do it anymore. People are constantly showing their true colors and i gotta respect it. Sometimes you just gotta wish them well & let them be.
Just apologize when you know that you fucked up... All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be is just weird shit... People love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!
when i like someone, i instantly start going too hard. i am too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. i need to calm down and only be what someone is to me. that’s my problem. i always love how i want to be loved hoping it gets reciprocated
I'm sorry but sex will never be enough just for me to stick around, I need my soul fed, spiritual growth, teach me, mold me, guide me, talk to me, love me, connect with me and UNDERSTAND ME.