@Auriel_zy As men, it takes time for us to share our insecurities, so it's most likely he felt that for a while. Also, by shutting him down you made him feel like he can't talk to you about his insecurities.
@Auriel_zy In my opinion, shutting down a conversation is rarely a good thing. What I understood is that your husband misses feeling wanted by you. You took that as the consequence of you saying no to sex at 2am. But, maybe that's not the only time he felt unwanted by you...
@Wotr313752@FabrizioRomano I don't think that's their goal. If you read carefully they are just trying to get transparency on how the decisions are made by the referees.