The man in the rain

I have no idea

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

the last one made me reach a breaking point

because why do you have to come back for the 5th time and then have the same conversation with me about going away again after having fun with me

(there was a 6th time too btw LOL)

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

three were at a random day at a random time
one after a stressful gathering

wheres my anxiety pills

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

three were at a random day at a random time
one after a stressful gathering

wheres my anxiety pills

[naya @Neha40702]

الله يلعن الاكس لما انفصل عني برساله بالليل للحين اعاني من القلق الله لايوفقه

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

emotional dependency be dammned

[َ @amii1ra]

بيجي يوم عشوائي
فجأة بتبطل تشوف الستوريات وترد متأخر وتقفل الجوال وما تفتح المحادثات القديمة ولا الجديدة وبتبطل تتكلم بشكل عام
وبيصير هذا أسلوب حياتك خلاص وما عاد تعرف ترجع مثل أول

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

like why not share your opinion as an individual with their own values instead of those labels and groups?
much less stressful

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

how do people label themselves? it sounds the same as locking yourself in a cage

i dont like the idea of putting 10 different labels in my bio and then having to defend them all and share my opinions within the values and principles of those labels

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

like labeling yourself as a communist or a feminist or as a red pill supporter

they come as a package of values principles that can easily collide with some of your own values, and then you find yourself wondering if that label is really for you

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

i have done this countless times

all kind of people and all kind of traumas and horrible stories and they mostly just want to vent and i didnt have an issue with that most of the time

no wonder i have the mental age of a 70yo

[AS @pini24308]

قاعده بتويتر

إذا طلب منك احد يفضفض لك الرفض افضل شي تسويه
آخر مره فضفضت لي وحده قالت عن امور تشيب الراس من قوتها ماواسيتها بلكت

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

NEVER stay with a person that doesn't communicate and plays hints games

you might let it slide a bunch of times but you will reach a breaking point because dealing with someone like that is too draining

[m @mimediary]

مهم الوضوح في العلاقات
اذ رفضت شي قول لا تتهرب لا تخلي الطرف الثاني يخمّن واذ فيه شي يضايق اشر عليه مباشرة
اما الاساليب الغبية اللي تستنزف العلاقة بدون فايدة زي صمت عقابي والتجاهل المتعمد والميوت عشان أوصل رسايل هذي ما تحل المشكلة

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

one thing i like about "liked your message" is that it gives me a reason to press the block button on a random day

nothing personal tho i just like to maintain a clean circle to make my life easier

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

تذكرت واحد تعرفت عليه وكان مسوي نفسه بنت وكان واضح وضوح العمى بس تعمدت امشيها عشان اشبع فضولي واعرف اسبابه

اعترف لي وطلع قي وكان يدور ناس بالطريقه ذي😍

[سايمون الضاحك @SimonDeceitful]

لي شهر اسولف مع مراهق يحسبني بنت كب عشاه كله عندي و عطاني قصة حياته كلها و بلك اخوياه

و البنات الي عنده و صار يشوفني حياته يمين با الله يا هو مزعج بشكل و قبيح المنظر اليوم راح

اجرح قلبه و اتصل عليه و اسمعه الصوت الرجولي الي له شهر يسولف معه

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

Exhausted soul

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

you can understand an avoidant but you can never make them do better

out of everyone i ever came across, avoidants were always the ones that resisted and refused change the most

full of lies and full of fake promises

[? @vaiiieex]

أنا أكثر شخص ممكن يفهم الأشخاص اللي عندهم شخصية تجنبيه
ما تتخيلون قد إيش صعب إنك تفكر تتعمق في العلاقات وأنت طول الوقت تفكر بالعواقب اللي ممكن تأثر عليك ، سوا بسبب الرفض أو الانتقاد ودائمًا أفضل الانسحاب بدون أي تبرير

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

@4lsk3t i understand, i had my experince as well and these kind of people will always drain you to the very last drop for nothing
so never settle for someone who doesnt reciprocate in a way that makes you feel appropriated!:D

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

why do you force yourself to stay with someone who makes you act that way when you can just.. find someone else?

if someone makes you act that way imagine your next 10 or 20 years with them

they are a waste and its not worth it

[(*´ω`*) @4lsk3t]

i don't understand why in this generation you have to repress the love you have for someone. why shouldn't i text a lot and show you i like you? why should i act uninterested in you and why should i not communicate our problems??

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

if you couldn't be yourself then dont waste your time

people who act nonchalant and uninterested are such a turn off in every way imaginable and they always end up lonely LMAO

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

i think its kinda sad too realizing that i simply door slammed a lot of people and they usually had no idea i would do such thing considering how much i gave them

but i think it was the right thing to do especially after giving too many chances for most people

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

there's an MBTI term for INFJs called "door slam"

its when you close the door in every way by fully removing them from your life and mind in every single way and usually that door is never opened again

[V @vlojet]

الرجوع بعد الانفصال اكثر فكره غبيه ومستحيل اقتنع فيها مهما كانت الاعذار اذا عقلي اخذ ردة فعل وانفصلت عن مشاعري الي اكنها للشخص مستحيل ارجع ابد ولا يهمني الشخص يُنسى كأنه لم يكن بالتالي حتى المراقبه ما تجي ببالي من كثر عدم الاهتمام

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

although i never really dug deep in the MBTI stuff but i like this term because it explained the thing i did the most whenever i felt like theres no hope in the person im with and they wont change AND IT EXPLAINED IN THE BEST WAY

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

but i realize life isn't perfect and it was never meant to be perfect and some people will have a better life than others

but i just like to imagine and think a lot

a very sad topic

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

"what if"

whenever i see someone broken i just wonder what if they didnt get into the situations that made them that way?

sometimes i imagine the life they never got and how happy and full of joy they would be and the smile on their faces

but maybe not in this life

[The man in the rain @2Thebluesky]

i also had to see all of this happen

seeing someone that way does things to you and you just start wishing you could have changed something and you wonder "what if"